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If you like someone... • March 07, 2010, 11:14:20 PM -

...and they don't have the same beliefs[Shamanism/Christian] as you do, would you still go for them?


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Re: If you like someone... • March 07, 2010, 11:27:47 PM - #1

if he doesn't but religion in the way then yes. but if religion is a big thing in his family the maybe not.. what about you kia would you?

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Re: If you like someone... • March 07, 2010, 11:50:12 PM - #2

i would go for the person. but it goes down deeper if you do get marry and have kids. how will you raise your kids? who's culture will they learn? both? it's not always the easiest thing to settle.

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Re: If you like someone... • March 08, 2010, 05:50:18 AM - #3

well..if u both realli like each other..u just have to agree on something n set standards

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Re: If you like someone... • March 08, 2010, 07:41:40 AM - #4

yea i would it doesn't really matter if that person a Shamanism or Christian as along as you guy like each other and he get along with your family etc

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Re: If you like someone... • March 08, 2010, 08:38:54 AM - #5

love shouldn't invovle religion, i've tried it before, but for me, i feel more comfortable with someone who has the same religion, although i will not use religion between us, but the question is, will he use religion betweeen us and not just that, will he give my family and religion the same respect as I'll give his.. if he cannot respect my family and our religion than that means he does not repect me enough to be with me, therefore, why would i be with soemone who cannot even accpet me and my religion..


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Re: If you like someone... • March 08, 2010, 09:28:56 AM - #6

Religion eh?  I don't find it as a big problem.  I would ask him more questions on why they converted or atleast know the past.  I think it's best to know that person first with their religion than going straight into a relationship.  Also, it's all about respect too.  I'm sure everyone's the same when one speaks negative about their beliefs.

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Re: If you like someone... • March 08, 2010, 11:36:02 AM - #7

love shouldn't invovle religion, i've tried it before, but for me, i feel more comfortable with someone who has the same religion, although i will not use religion between us, but the question is, will he use religion betweeen us and not just that, will he give my family and religion the same respect as I'll give his.. if he cannot respect my family and our religion than that means he does not repect me enough to be with me, therefore, why would i be with soemone who cannot even accpet me and my religion..

Agreed with Moze said. Religion shouldn't be a factor but respect is.

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Re: If you like someone... • March 08, 2010, 12:47:45 PM - #8

if he doesn't but religion in the way then yes. but if religion is a big thing in his family the maybe not.. what about you kia would you?

If he says religion doesn't matter then I say its okay, go for it. But this is the thing, what if his family prefer him to date his own kind, what then? Would you still go for him anyway?

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Re: If you like someone... • March 08, 2010, 12:51:21 PM - #9

i would go for the person. but it goes down deeper if you do get marry and have kids. how will you raise your kids? who's culture will they learn? both? it's not always the easiest thing to settle.

From the husband's side of course. What do you think?
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Re: If you like someone... • March 08, 2010, 12:55:47 PM - #10

well..if u both realli like each other..u just have to agree on something n set standards

Set standards, yes I agree. If he accept and appreciate my culture, I'll do the same in return. Sometime I just think its best to stick to your own kind but who knows.
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Re: If you like someone... • March 08, 2010, 12:57:42 PM - #11

yea i would it doesn't really matter if that person a Shamanism or Christian as along as you guy like each other and he get along with your family etc

I guess religion shouldn't matter eh?
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Re: If you like someone... • March 08, 2010, 12:59:57 PM - #12

love shouldn't invovle religion, i've tried it before, but for me, i feel more comfortable with someone who has the same religion, although i will not use religion between us, but the question is, will he use religion betweeen us and not just that, will he give my family and religion the same respect as I'll give his.. if he cannot respect my family and our religion than that means he does not repect me enough to be with me, therefore, why would i be with soemone who cannot even accpet me and my religion..

YOur right about Love shouldn't involved religion but what if his family is against it?
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Re: If you like someone... • March 08, 2010, 01:11:53 PM - #13

Religion eh?  I don't find it as a big problem.  I would ask him more questions on why they converted or atleast know the past.  I think it's best to know that person first with their religion than going straight into a relationship.  Also, it's all about respect too.  I'm sure everyone's the same when one speaks negative about their beliefs.

Your right, its probably a good thing to ask more about their religion and how dedicated they are to their beliefs. Some Christian are just very into their religion that, from my opinion, gets truly annoying that its pointless to be with them.
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Re: If you like someone... • March 08, 2010, 01:54:08 PM - #14

i am liking them for who they are, not what they believe in...

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