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Would you marry someone who is indebt? • March 07, 2010, 12:51:48 AM -

Just a thought to ask some of you for your opinion.

Here's mine.

I worked hard to get out of debt and has been debt free for a year now and on going. When I was indebt, it was a struggle trying to make ends meet. After paying all your creditors, Ultility bills, Car payment, Car insurance other necesity such as food and gas, you barely have enough for leisure. I had to cut back on leisure time and became a workaholic just to keep myself occupied. I realize how much trouble debt can put you in. I suppose I wouldn't mind marrying someone who has a little debt to pay like $5,000. If I was really crazy for her, I don't care how much debt she is in! hehehee...

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Re: Would you marry someone who is indebt? • March 07, 2010, 06:15:50 PM - #1

well most people r in debt these days..but it depend on wat kind of debt. My hubsand u can say is in debt but its due to his skool loans..it's hard these days..but u just gotta make ends met n have patient to live through the hardship

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Re: Would you marry someone who is indebt? • March 07, 2010, 09:41:35 PM - #2

Nope. He has to get out of debt first before settling for other things. I'm sorry but people who are in debt, no matter what kind of debt it is, I don't care. Marrying him will make me in debt too so nah.
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Re: Would you marry someone who is indebt? • March 07, 2010, 10:52:50 PM - #3

lol thas crazy.  define debt...as in unneccessary debt from excess spending or like including, car/house payments etc.  as for me NOOOOOO WAAAAYYYYY, if that person had debt accumulated from credit card shopping sprees n purchases, if its like more serious stuff like cars/ house then i would understand n be lenient on.

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Re: Would you marry someone who is indebt? • March 08, 2010, 01:13:37 AM - #4

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Everyone has some sort of debt. As long as it's not a problem, it's shouldn't matter right?


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hahahaha...what if he makes enough to pay his debt and support you?

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Debt as in the total amount of everything he/she is making payment on. Credit cards, loans, car and house payment.

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Re: Would you marry someone who is indebt? • March 08, 2010, 05:56:01 AM - #5

yeap MH..everyone has some sort of debt even if they don't have any atm later in life they sure will. If u can't accept the fact tat everyone will have debt or want someone who's completed debt free tat aint realistic.  Also u shouldn't make a problem out of it...like i say life is hard yes but it's something u have to deal with.also as long as u both have each other..sooner or later the debt is be dealt with

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Re: Would you marry someone who is indebt? • March 08, 2010, 07:08:37 AM - #6

I don't mind marry someone who is in debt, as long as there is a reason why he or she is in debt. In USA is a deb free world mainly each and everyone have debt each and every second. Even now i stilling going through my though time with school and workaholic with a full time and part time job. Sometime I feel like my body is so sort can't really move. Hoping that one day i will be out of debt free.
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Re: Would you marry someone who is indebt? • March 08, 2010, 09:34:30 AM - #7

Depends on what kind of debt he's in.  But than again, if i'm not in debt, he shouldn't. Period. Cheesy  Before i marry, i want to know or see that he's able to support me and himself. 

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Re: Would you marry someone who is indebt? • March 08, 2010, 11:41:07 AM - #8

yeap MH..everyone has some sort of debt even if they don't have any atm later in life they sure will. If u can't accept the fact tat everyone will have debt or want someone who's completed debt free tat aint realistic.  Also u shouldn't make a problem out of it...like i say life is hard yes but it's something u have to deal with.also as long as u both have each other..sooner or later the debt is be dealt with

You said someone who is debt free isn't realistic? Ok. I guess I'm not real then. I need to get back in debt to be real. heheehhe...

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Re: Would you marry someone who is indebt? • March 08, 2010, 11:43:49 AM - #9

I don't mind marry someone who is in debt, as long as there is a reason why he or she is in debt. In USA is a deb free world mainly each and everyone have debt each and every second. Even now i stilling going through my though time with school and workaholic with a full time and part time job. Sometime I feel like my body is so sort can't really move. Hoping that one day i will be out of debt free.

I know what you mean working hard to get your debt paid off. I'm sure you can manage it if you're making payments of more than the minimum amount.

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Re: Would you marry someone who is indebt? • March 08, 2010, 11:44:25 AM - #10

Depends on what kind of debt he's in.  But than again, if i'm not in debt, he shouldn't. Period. Cheesy  Before i marry, i want to know or see that he's able to support me and himself. 

Why not the both of you support each other?

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Re: Would you marry someone who is indebt? • March 08, 2010, 01:17:04 PM - #11

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hahahaha...what if he makes enough to pay his debt and support you?

It depends on how long he'll be able to pay off his debt and support me at the same time. Most importantly is how much he is debt for.
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Re: Would you marry someone who is indebt? • March 08, 2010, 05:38:21 PM - #12

depends if hes able to pay back i mean like pay back as in $6000 not $20,000 thats crazy!

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Re: Would you marry someone who is indebt? • March 08, 2010, 09:45:51 PM - #13

if a person is looking for a mate, why would they spill the beans that they are in debt? lol

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Re: Would you marry someone who is indebt? • March 08, 2010, 11:05:30 PM - #14


It depends on how long he'll be able to pay off his debt and support me at the same time. Most importantly is how much he is debt for.

I like to think the same too. I come from a background where the man has got to be able to take care of himself and his women. I would sure like to know if the women's debt is something I can help with or not. hehehee...

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