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Seems like Hmong women now a days thinks more about clubing and partying rather then the importance of their future. I know life can get stressful and we all need to get away sometimes but partying and clubbing every week is just too much. I know there are some out there who are serious with their life and future. Those are the ones that are always home and wears glasses. I think I'm going to have to go back to old school days and mus tam hluas nkauj at their house xwb os!!
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Likewise are there any hard working mature single Hmong men around? It's hard to find one that's not all about sex, getting some, and love 'em and leave 'em. Too many Hmong guys are commitment phobics or feel like they have to play games to get a girl. If you love me/like me, let me know. If you don't, let me go.  |
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Likewise are there any hard working mature single Hmong men around? It's hard to find one that's not all about sex, getting some, and love 'em and leave 'em. Too many Hmong guys are commitment phobics or feel like they have to play games to get a girl. If you love me/like me, let me know. If you don't, let me go. ~waves hand~ I'm right here!! |
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Yog kawg, Malignant Hero! Kuv tsis ntseeg. Like they say, a gentleman is just a wolf dressed in sheep's clothing. Haha. Every guy claims he's "single" and "Just hasn't met the right one" or something. In reality, we all know the truth is different. Skeletons littering the closet, broken hearts lining the past, etc. Or they pretend to be someone else for a bit and then it doesn't last so their true colors show up again. *sigh* |
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Yog kawg, Malignant Hero! Kuv tsis ntseeg. Like they say, a gentleman is just a wolf dressed in sheep's clothing. Haha. Every guy claims he's "single" and "Just hasn't met the right one" or something. In reality, we all know the truth is different. Skeletons littering the closet, broken hearts lining the past, etc. Or they pretend to be someone else for a bit and then it doesn't last so their true colors show up again. *sigh* True. A lot of guys make gentlmen like me look bad. It's a shame. That's why some of us are cautious now because we don't want girls like you think negatively about us and then break our achey breaky heart.  Koj tsis ntseeg kuv because koj tsis tau paub kuv xwb. |
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Hahaha yog kawg os MH.  Kuv ces tsis ntseeg leej twg lawm tsuas yog kuv tus kheej ib leeg xwb. Especially txiv neej ncauj qab zib nplhaig qab ntsev. I don't need to fall down the mountain to know it'll hurt...yet I fell for him, and it hurt like hell, and now it's over just like it began. I try to give people the benefit of the doubt...shoulda just listened to my instincts when they screamed "RUN AWAY!" LOL. Besides, peb cov poj niam mas siab thiaj achey breaky os. Women hurt deeper. I guess cuz we care too much. So tos txog hnub uas kuv ntsib ib tug guy es yuav muaj siab loj handle tau ib tug mature woman, kuv yeej tsis vam. |
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Hahaha yog kawg os MH. Kuv ces tsis ntseeg leej twg lawm tsuas yog kuv tus kheej ib leeg xwb. Especially txiv neej ncauj qab zib nplhaig qab ntsev. I don't need to fall down the mountain to know it'll hurt...yet I fell for him, and it hurt like hell, and now it's over just like it began. I try to give people the benefit of the doubt...shoulda just listened to my instincts when they screamed "RUN AWAY!" LOL. Besides, peb cov poj niam mas siab thiaj achey breaky os. Women hurt deeper. I guess cuz we care too much. So tos txog hnub uas kuv ntsib ib tug guy es yuav muaj siab loj handle tau ib tug mature woman, kuv yeej tsis vam. Cas es koj put down peb cov gentlemen ua lua lis os! Peb cov gentlemen know how to xav and feel thiab nas. Nev ib cov pom niam ncauj qab zib thiab nplhiag qab ntsev ib yam thiab hos. That's why I've become very picky!! I do agree that women are more sensitive and true that women are more likely to care more then men. You know, yeeg muaj ib tug guy es yuav hlub tau ib tug mature women li koj. Tamsis nyob ntawm koj puas nyiam nws xwb. BTW, I'm not relly good with Hmong so please bare with me. hehehe.... |
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LOL tsis yog put down..tsuas yog qhov tseeb xwb! It's the truth. Yes, guys do know how to think/feel too. Yes, some women do have sweet words and bitter actions. But the fact is majority of good girls end up getting bitten by bad men more than good men and bad women. "Behind every b--ch is a man who made her that way!" That's why women flirt/play around now too...because if we put all our eggs in one basket, if it breaks, it gets very messy! Ha ntshe lam hais xwb! Most guys cannot handle a woman who is independent, dependable, and doesn't give it up or give in easily. Mature women are too difficult for most guys to handle...so they give up and go to the easy ones. Kuv los? Xav tau ib tug es tsis tas zoo nraug cuag phaj ej tab sis tsuav nws muaj siab ncaj siab zoo thiab wb ob txoj kev xav sib xws. Because in the end, I would rather have a cute guy who clicked with me and had great chemistry than a really hot guy with nothing between us but lust. It's ok, tsis ua li cas. Not bad |
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LOL tsis yog put down..tsuas yog qhov tseeb xwb! It's the truth. Yes, guys do know how to think/feel too. Yes, some women do have sweet words and bitter actions. But the fact is majority of good girls end up getting bitten by bad men more than good men and bad women. "Behind every b--ch is a man who made her that way!" That's why women flirt/play around now too...because if we put all our eggs in one basket, if it breaks, it gets very messy! Ha ntshe lam hais xwb! Most guys cannot handle a woman who is independent, dependable, and doesn't give it up or give in easily. Mature women are too difficult for most guys to handle...so they give up and go to the easy ones. Kuv los? Xav tau ib tug es tsis tas zoo nraug cuag phaj ej tab sis tsuav nws muaj siab ncaj siab zoo thiab wb ob txoj kev xav sib xws. Because in the end, I would rather have a cute guy who clicked with me and had great chemistry than a really hot guy with nothing between us but lust. It's ok, tsis ua li cas. Not bad Well explained. Ua rau kuv tsis paub hais lis cas nrog qab rau koj except kuv agree nrog koj thiab. Read koj cov lus xwb twb ua rau kuv vwm rau koj lub hlwb lawm!! For me, a women who is independent and can take care of herself is a plus! Just as long as she isn't a two timer. hehehee... You know, I'm the kind of guy who can handle an independent women. Yog koj tsis care about ib tug guy zoo nraug cuag phaj ej es peb cov guy tsis zoo nruag tamsis hos yog pah ej nes? Peb puas qualify thiab? |
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since you are saying that mature single Hmong women club every night... do you do that too since you know?
so if a man is expecting a woman not to club "so much" why can't she expect the same thing from a man?
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Exactly, ddawbb! So many guys are like "I don't like girls who club so much...etc" yet they go out, drink like fish, and party like it's 1999. It's about balance. I'm dead serious about my future. I like to have fun too. I'm just as comfortable in jeans without makeup (like today) as I am in heels and a little black dress. I'm a big nerd who finds life interesting because doing the same old stuff (like partying 24/7 or working/studying 24/7) is unhealthy. Two timer? Just because a woman is independent doesn't mean she'll be a two-timer. Not looking for a hero or prince charming, because I'm not a heroine or princess. Zoo nraug nyob ntawm tus neeg ntsia pom. But qualify rau dab tsi? Kuv tus kheej tsis nrhiav tus hlub li os. Cia nws mam los rau kuv. Yog los tsis txog ces xij peem. |
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I know there are some out there who are serious with their life and future. Those are the ones that are always home and wears glasses.
No offense but the ones who "are always home and wears glasses" are the ones that guys tend to overlook and go straight for the ones that go clubbing and partying. |
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well its the norm now, to go out clubbing n stuff i would think. I dont wear glasses hehe  . but yeah u still need to do it old style nowadays anyways. I know there are some out there who are serious with their life and future. Those are the ones that are always home and wears glasses. I think I'm going to have to go back to old school days and mus tam hluas nkauj at their house xwb os!!
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well..some people just want to have fun first..than get serious
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I hope this doesn't refer to me. LOL jk. What do you mean by that huh? Just because a woman need to party every now and then doesn't mean she's not mature or not a hard working person etc. After a long week of work who doesn't want to go out and hit the bar and have a girls night out?
Those who stays home and wear glasses need to go out and enjoy life a little. Life is not about staying home and be a book warm all the time.
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